| I knew of a 'Child Woman' I wish to call her so | | | | borrow from some one and he would pay them later |
| ..because she was 40 years old, yet a very sweet | | | | with interest. My friend being the emotional person she |
| child at heart. To say that she had her shares of | | | | is, tried her level best..but no one wanted to help..She |
| sorrows and woes in life, would be an understatement. | | | | then sold some gold jewelry she had and managed |
| She possess character and inner strength, that comes | | | | to collect the money and sent him in all about( $6000). |
| rare in these times. She has all the essence of true | | | | Again he was very grateful and felt she was a |
| woman. Her soul reflects and comes through every | | | | precious jewel, which he could never afford to lose. |
| overt act she does in life...Well now to continue with | | | | |
| the incident... | | | | By now all her friends were angry with her for |
| She was in that phase, where, nothing was working | | | | behaving so foolishly, and not expected of her. She |
| out..She left her home and country and came to the | | | | said " I have taken this risk knowingly, I trust him and |
| States in-order to start a new life. She registered for | | | | believe in his Love". He will come to me she said. A |
| a master's course and thought she was all set in life. | | | | man, who has so much of positivity and goodness in |
| but unfortunately, terribly lonely and longed to find | | | | him cannot conceive to cheat. Finally she asked him |
| true love. Therefore, she decided to signup on some | | | | to visit her...initially he made excuses about his very |
| matrimonial website. She wrote | | | | busy schedule later relented. She waited, spent |
| "I am looking for a reasonably good looking man should | | | | some money to buy her a decent outfit, in order to |
| hold masters degree and possess high integrity...I hate | | | | qualify to his standards, cleaned her home and |
| lies and know it to be a vice rather than a virtue." She | | | | waited..He said he could not board the flight ...and some |
| did after a few days receive interest from an | | | | urgent things had come up hence would not make the |
| exceptionally handsome looking man, claiming to be an | | | | trip..but to hold on to his love and Trust him. One day |
| Engineer. in his early 40s. What more? He just hated all | | | | he said he wanted to chat with her online. She |
| lies and avoided such people. He also wished that | | | | consented. He made her promise that she would |
| she Love God and believe in God. Otherwise, there | | | | always love him..She said she would and did. He said |
| was no going further. | | | | that he needed her to believe that he loves her |
| It was like her dream being answered..he courted her | | | | above everything she said she does..Then he went |
| online, used to call her everyday, made her feel like a | | | | on to disclose... |
| princess in fairy tales, very romantic just like the mills | | | | "I am not the person you think I am ..I am X but Z and I |
| and boons types. She an humble not so beautiful, | | | | live not in California as I earlier said, I live in Nigeria. I am |
| ordinary, next door girl.. He well established, Handsome | | | | not a US Citizen, I do not live in the States. I am not |
| romantic, loving and God fearing. She assumed they | | | | a Civil Engineer, I am jobless. I am very sorry baby, this |
| were in love and made plans for marriage and life | | | | is unpardonable..but this was a scam to cheat you. |
| after marriage..this poor girl..finally felt she was blessed. | | | | There are 3 people involved. Mr. X is in UK . Me and Y |
| He motivated her to study, exercise and above all | | | | are in Nigeria..." |
| pray. She went to church regularly and prayed..went | | | | "I love you so much so I had to confess, you see! Your |
| for long walks to keep fit, ate healthy and dared to | | | | innocence and love changed me. I could not deceive |
| hope again. | | | | you anymore.. Please don't hate me" |
| One day she received an email from her prince, He | | | | My friend was stunned her world broke down...she |
| was stuck in a contract, his equipment broke, and he | | | | could not react... That fraud broke her last will to |
| had to make payments to workers(laborers) who | | | | live..She was in state of confusion...how could she |
| depend on him for wages..since he had no way and | | | | be wrong ..how could God be wrong how could the |
| means to correct the error, he had to do this | | | | words he spoke from the bible not touch him even |
| unpleasant thing ..ask her money to | | | | once, while he was deceiving her? these were |
| help. Obviously she being student said she had no | | | | questions which I hope she finds answers to |
| money and was funding her education from bank | | | | eventually.. |
| loans... all said and done he worked his way through | | | | But the fact is in the name of dating and matrimonial |
| and she sent him money not much ...in our times but | | | | sites, there are some smart con artists, waiting for the |
| too much for her ($2000) mind you , it was | | | | next prey.. So friends when you do sign up if you do, |
| her tuition fees...The result he was very pleased and | | | | Please insist on personal contact or to come on |
| praised her and said all those lovely endearing | | | | webcam. I wonder what is the solution and how one |
| words...and how he would protect her once he is done | | | | should bring these crooks to book. The first step is |
| with his contract and came and met her. He promised | | | | stay alert second I would suggest is immediately report |
| her, she would never have to work another day of her | | | | to the concerned website owners, thirdly register a |
| life. He would take care of all her | | | | complaint in the cyber crime branch. |
| problems. Interestingly, after few days she again | | | | NB: From every bad event there is a good result... as in |
| receives call saying..he still needed money as his | | | | this article, the girl's innocence motivated the man to |
| employer, had to transfer huge funds... and it was | | | | confess and reform from the practice of cheating |
| taking a long time, he understood she had no means to | | | | people. God uses his best disciples to serve him... So |
| help him more..but would highly appreciate, if she could | | | | sometimes our pain is worth it..Is it not?? |